11 Painful Things…

I know..

This topic is not a good comeback blog for me. but I guess It takes  a good inspiration to make a good topic right?

.. to be honest, I’m not that inspired to write a blog.  And I’m not in pain at the moment either..

but for the mean time I think this topic would do.

so now.. here are the 11 painful Things that bitter people should avoid. (bwahahaha) Or for some people out there who wants to move on..♥

1. Bringing back the feeling you’ve learned to forget.-

C’mon people,  Stop torturing yourselves.  you’ve already learned how to forget it. so why bring it back?. I know it’s hard to move on, ‘coz I’ve once been there, done that. so give yourself a little respect and put some little love into it.  inhale, exhale. look forward to the future and keep moving forward. Ü

2. Reminiscing the good times.-

It’s not that bad to remember some good old memories with your past love. Just don’t overdo it. It could sometimes lead to tears and the dreadful feeling of regret. so for some peace loving moments and relaxation purposes, I guess this would just be fine.

3. Trying to hide what you really feel.-

Hiding your emotions would just define how weak your self- esteem is and how high your ego has become. Ü (easy to say but very hard to put into action ne dae?) you should sometimes try to open up a bit and let some steam out.

4. Loving someone who loves another.-

Aww.. That’s all.

….  ahahaha.. kidding aside,  Come on people..This is just Plain Torture.  yeah,  I know,  sometimes these things come inevitably. but because that’s how stupid Love is.  We should all realize that Things do happen for a reason. Maybe that someone is not meant for us. or It’s not yet the right time to fall in love. (ouchies)

5. Forcing yourself to let go when you still want to hold on.-

Now this is something that’s really bothering.. isn’t it? hmm.. how to deal with this..I guess the heart does go tired sometimes.. when loving too much hurts and Letting go becomes the best option. Try to estimate yourself If you could still carry on. and If you do. Goodluck.  If you don’t.  repeat after me **move on**. Ü

6. Shielding your heart to love somebody.-

Why? afraid to love? to get rejected? Well, you know what sweetie? It’s all part of the game called love. Everything doesn’t always go our way anyways,  so learn how to play it. Sometimes a little boo-boo makes us a stronger person..so don’t be afraid to get hurt. It’s part of life. and you’ll learn that in the end.. sometimes it takes a lot of guts to take some risk .but then what you get out of it might resolve to something better. That sometimes, It’s all worth the risks. so just take it nice and slow..

7. Loving a person too much.-

Now this is something stupid. Save some for yourself honey, don’t let too much love get the better of you. sometimes it pays to save some love for yourself. Because good things never seem to last that long. Most especially if your still  young and in Love. Loving a person gives us the opportunity to learn how life goes, To know how Love really works, we then learn how to take risks and get hurt but it’s all part of the process. But the most important thing of all is that we should all learn how to love ourselves first and to put  God before anything else.

8. Right love at the wrong time.-

Maybe you’re just too young to fall in love that deep or the situation doesn’t allow you love birds to get all lovey-dovey at the moment because of some circumstances that life offers. Like when Parents doesn’t want you to be in a relationship at first, or when you’ve fallen in love with somebody who is already committed. or when you’re still with the wrong guy when the best one out there already found you while you haven’t realize it just yet.(Life sucks isn’t it?) well, what I could only share about this one is that TRUE LOVE WAITS. and when the right time comes, there’ll surely be one person out there that God saved for you. Ü so cheer up and live your life to the fullest of your ability!.

9. Taking risk to fall in love again-

They say that the best way to heal a broken heart is to help yourself to fall in love again. I say that could be right. and It might help you with the healing process, But then again, this might not be the best remedy for some. maybe they are not such risk takers or maybe they are just too traumatized with the situation they’ve been through before, that’s why they don’t want to fall in love for now. Love takes time guys, don’t force yourself too much. There will come a time that True Love will come and you’ll be happy with the results.

10. Accepting that it was never meant to be.-

Acceptance is the main key to a brighter future. I mean an upright attitude which accepts the fact of life that nothing is really permanent in this world but change. And that some good things never really seem to last,  having this kind of thinking is one way to accept things as they are. Just keep up with the positive attitude and see where it’ll take you. Ü

11. The “what ifs.”—

This comes after the time when you think about all the regrets after the relationship has ended. and I assure you, this will be one heck of a time. you’ll just be reminded of everything you’ve been through, all the things you’ve done for that person which has gone to waste.  The effort you’ve given. The moments you’ve shared together. and I might share with you people. This is one bad time you shouldn’t have wasted your life into. so don’t splurge yourself  of too much whining. It’ll just give you the worst headache. move on. It’s not the end of the World is it?..but then again, It’s not that bad to analyze the situation. It could sometimes help you recover easily. Ü